Get Started on Your Rope Confidence Journey!
Ready to get started? Come learn from San Diego's premiere Shibari Rope Bondage Instructional Group!
How to Use Rope to Start Becoming a Bedroom Bondage Boss without going to in-person classes
and
Learn real-life and kinky skills that matter.
So that,
you can turn fantasy into reality and have the understanding of what it means to engage in deep, intimate connections.
If you can find 15 minutes a day, and you have desire to explore rope, you can learn Shibari/Rope Bondage basics in less than one month!
Your mission, should you choose to accept it . . .
Is to gain knowledge so you can safely and effectively do a basic tie
with confidence and understanding.
Shibari/Rope Bondage is Growing . . . Are You Ready To Meet Your Partner's Wants & Needs?
According to PsychologyToday.com studies(1) have shown that more than 20% of people have practiced some form of restraint as an adult. The release of the Fifty-Shades of Grey series started a avalanche of interest in BDSM and Rope Bondage.
And a 2019 study (2) showed that those who actually practiced BDSM/Shibari/Rope Bondage appeared to be more satisfied with their sexuality than non-practitioners.
Do You Want to be MORE Satisfied with Your Sexuality?
In today's world, your mental and emotional health are critically important.
You cannot afford to keep waiting for in-person classes to come back!
You Need To Understand Your Options, Because Not All Options Are Good Options!
Today, so many people are jumping into videos that show you how to tie a form, but completely missing the real risks that are involved physically, emotionally and mentally and not giving you the REAL SECRET SAUCE behind a great tie!
You wouldn't jump out of a plane without a parachute, would you?
You wouldn't take your pet to a mechanic, would you?
You wouldn't try to create gourmet meal without training and guidance, would you?
I think not!
So many people are watching Youtube Videos and learning how to be technicians, but not connecticians!
Videos with no accountability or responsibility to the viewer, none!
Shibari/Rope Bondage is much more than simply putting rope on a manequinn!
Shibari/Rope Bondage is much more than just tying someone up!
Shibari/Rope Bondage is more than just forms. It is about intimacy, connection, communication and more. We want to help you achieve all of that, but in a way that ensures you have fully informed-consent about what you are doing. You cannot learn that from a Youtube video.
Shibari/Rope Bondage is a MULTI-FACETED SKILL that involves every part of you and your partner!
Your Mind
Your Heart
Your Energy
Your Body
Your Very Being . . .
And I want to help you engage all of that and teach you through the All Tied Up Experience!
5 Reasons Why You Should Do This Now!
In this time of social distancing each of us has experienced a huge impact to our lives.
An impact that continues to affect us with no end in sight!
No Matter Where You Live:
The beauty of online learning is that you can access it when you want and how you want. This course is designed to help you, to learn the basics, and get started at your own pace. With the help of an experienced instructor!
No Matter Who You Are:
If you are reading this, then you have some desire to learn and understand Shibari/Rope Bondage. It doesn't matter if you can't tie your own shoes, we can help you learn how to do this.
No Matter What Role You Want To Play:
Whether you want to learn to tie or be tied, or both, you can learn. Our courses cover both sides of the equation.
No Matter Your Previous Experience:
If you have tried it before, been to in-person classes, or if you are a total newbie, we can help. There is so much to learn that it cannot all be learned at one time. Shibari/Rope Bondage is a JOURNEY!
No Matter How Much Time You Have:
It doesn't matter if you are a mom with several kids, or someone who is busy with a full-time job. If you can give 15 minutes a day over the course of a month, you can learn and still have a life.
Connecting with this and our other courses will help you connect with your partner
and with others from around the world who share the same interest as you!
5 Different Online Shibari/Rope Bondage "Experts" That You Should Not Be Learning From!
1. The Manequinn Expert: If your only product is showing people how to tie an inanimate object, where did you learn that skill from packaging boxes? Really, I need a drink!
2. The I Got Bored So Let Me Teach Expert: The person who prior to COVID no one had heard about and now decides that they are the one who knows everything about Shibari/Rope Bondage and decided to make some videos. The have no regional following, no one that can vouch for their skill level, but they have a picture of a suspension so they must be legit! Right?
3. The Master Of All Things Rope: Come learn how to do Shibari, and Suspensions, and Western Bondage, and Self-tying, and bottoming, and on and on and on. There isn't anyone on this planet that knows all of those things and can teach all of those things well, at the same time! I certainly can't! Learning from people who don't focus on what you want to learn will only lead to confusion and possibly dangerous play.
4. The Suspensions are Easy Expert: Suspensions are easy? Really? I don't think so, not safe, quality suspensions. Learning to do suspensions with the thoughtfulness, self-awareness, personal responsibility, and understanding takes some serious skills. Do not fall prey to this charletan.
5. The Video Only - No Help Given Expert: Online courses have certainly changed how Shibari/Rope Bondage can be learned, but no video can tell you that what you tied is right! You NEED feedback on what you are doing. Feedback that is timely and specific to what you need.
This is where All Tied Up San Diego comes in!
The team that brings more than 12 years combined experience helping individuals build confidence, step-by-step in their rope journey. Who wants to bring you an experience where you are not alone and you can access an instructor to provide guidance and help!
Life Is A Journey, So Is Learning Rope
So, you are interested in learning about rope bondage? Great!
Hi there! My name is Dan. My partner Renee and I are excited to help get you started.
This class is the first in a series of courses that we offer to help you to progress in your Rope Confidence Journey as safely as possible.
Now you might be wondering why safely? Well, you see while rope bondage looks amazing and is truly an amazing skill to develop, as a Top or bottom, it is also has risks.
More Than Five Years Ago . . .
We created a rope instructional group located in the San Diego area to help grow the rope community here. Over time that group has grown and become like a very large family, a community of people sharing a common love. We have folx from all different walks of life, folx just like you.
We have helped more than 2,500 people get started on their own Rope Confidence Journey. And we hope that you will join us as you start yours.
"This is really amazing content, thank you for producing it and making it available! I think this will make the world of rope a better place for everyone. In particular, I'm a big fan of the examples of negotiation. During the Covid era, I have no idea how else someone who's a beginner with rope could get a reasonable idea of what these negotiations look like without having already seen them before the lockdowns and everything began. So I really appreciate that."
What Does The Rope Confidence Journey Look Like?
We call this the Rope Confidence Journey not just because it is a journey, it is also about confidence. Whether you are the one tying (Top) or the one being tied (bottom), there is a lot to learn to have the confidence of doing it well.
The first step in your journey is the Getting Started class (this one). It will provide you with information about the fundamentals of rope bondage. This includes safety, negotiation, consent, and three foundational ties that you will use for years to come. You will finish with the confidence to go to a rope event!
The next step is the 101 Course. This is a six-module course that is designed to take what you learn in the Getting Started class and puts into action. We take each element and create activities and ties that you will do to help gain the applicational knowledge you need.
The third step is the 200 Series Course. This course is broken down into three 6-module courses, the 201, 202, and 203. Each of these courses takes you further down the path and into more advance ties, finally leading to doing rope suspensions. And we have done this in a purposeful way that ensures you know how to mitgate risks and create memorable moments.
The picture to the right is from class 5 of 6 in our 203 series course. Renee is suspended face up and our students (blurred for privacy) are about to do this same tie on their own, with our instructional team there to support.
ARE YOU READY TO:
- Get clear instruction on ALL aspects of rope
- Learn the SECRET SAUCE for great ties
- Increase connection and intimacy
- Understand how to minimize risk, while accelerating the fun
Well this is the course for you!
We will help you learn all FIVE KEY AREAS of rope bondage through a fun and engaging, experiential course that uses video instruction, and much more!
Here is what previous mission takers have said about their experience:
So Much More Than Ties
"I can’t say enough good things about All Tied Up’s Safety and Introduction class. Rope always seemed very daunting to me, but Dan and Renee created a comfortable space to learn about the actual risks while making it approachable. They addressed so much more than just the rope and ties! It is definitely a path that you can follow to as much community and connection as you are looking for. Plus, they’re funny and engaging. The class is long, but the time flew by. I will definitely be back to learn more from them!"
- Helen
Comprehensive and Great for Beginners
"I was interested in learning about rope and the kink / BDSM culture as a beginner, and after searching around I found All Tied Up SD. The intro and safety class was an incredibly comprehensive and comfortable place to begin learning more about rope, BDSM culture, and the chemical effects being tied up can cause in bottoms. All things that I didn’t know beforehand. If you’re looking for a place to jump into rope, or even if you have had practice and want to learn more, I highly recommend checking out All Tied Up classes."
- Nikki
Awesome Introduction
"SirKnottyDan taught a very informative and well structured class. The atmosphere was relaxed.We spent a fair amount of time discussing the complexity of rope tying, beyond just learning the actual physical act. I would highly recommend to beginners and anyone looking to explore something new."
- Chris
5 Life-Altering Ways Your Life Is About To Change
(for the better)
1. This Is Who You Are: You can now step forward and embrace this part of you that wants to explore Shibari/Rope Bondage. You have found freedom in taking that first step on your journey! You own personal confidence has grown and you self-esteem is increased.
2. This Is Who You Are: You are now knowledgeable about Shibari/Rope Bondage basics and you recognize the need for negotiation, vetting, aftercare, and much, much more!
3. This Is Who You Are: Able to tie or be tied in three foundational ties that can immediately increase connection and intimacy with your partner.
4. This Is Who You Are: Understand how "The Ropamine Effect" happens and what you can do to excentuate it or mitigate it.
5. This Is Who You Are: You know the SECRET SAUCE that causes "The Ropamine Effect" and you know how to bring the sauce every time.
How will you get there?
We have a course that can get you all of that!
Mission Summary
This class is the first course in our Rope Confidence Journey course series.
In this course you will learn:
- How to tie three basic foundational ties to rope bondage. These ties include elements and processes that you use in future ties, these are truly the foundations of bondage.
- Learn where Shibari/Rope Bondage comes from. This will help you to have a perspective on the history and growth of this amazing artform.
- Learn why rope bondage is dangerous and how to safely mitigate risk. So many people watch a video and then try to tie the form, without understanding the risk. You will understand the deeper things that will help you and your partner to know what the risks are and how to mitigate them.
- Learn the Stages of a rope tie. And what you need to know about each one of them to have a successful scene.
- Learn about consent, negotiation, and communication related to rope. These three things are so important and they will become more important the further you go on your rope journey. You will have great base knowledge to give you confidence.
- Learn how to negotiate the TOUCH aspect of a rope tie with a bottom. You will know EXACTLY how to discuss how to touch or where you want to be touched (OR NOT). And you will see me do a negotiation with another person. Super cool to watch and learn.
- Learn the CRITICAL aspects of Physiology and Anatomy when it comes to rope. The body is the canvas and the body is an incredibly complex creation that you need to understand how to put rope on a body safely and effectively!
### PLUS a whole lot more . . .
Additionally, you will be given access to more than 60 minutes of video instruction that will self-destruct in 30-days:
- Instruction on how to negotiate touch for a tie.
- Instruction on physiology and anatomy related to rope bondage
- Three specific ties that will give you a solid foundational starting point for doing rope bondage.
And you will learn what we believe is the real secret to creating a truly memorable experience, even if you are just learning how to tie!
But you have to sign-up to get that piece of information!
We have helped THOUSANDS of people in the Southern California area get started doing rope bondage. We can help you get started too.
We offer a full 100% Money Back Guarantee! Just let us know you didn't receive the value you expected and we will refund your payment, simple as that.
Class Pricing Options
Don't Have Rope?
Need Rope? We have you covered!
You can get
Three 30' and Two 15' bundles
of premium, conditioned, ready to use, 6mm jute rope
with a pair of premium safety shears
shipped via USPS Priority Mail to you
(a $150 value)
when you select that option!
(U.S. Residents Only - Sorry)
MISSION:
Rope Confidence
Getting Started Class
Class Only
- 1-Hour *Live* Lecture Portion
- Get Started on Your Rope Confidence Journey in an EXPERIENTIAL online course that is different than anything you have seen before!
- Learn the Five Key Areas of Rope Bondage
- Unlimited Access to course materials
- Access to a Community SLACK Group Chat
- You will clearly see your progress in this course. No wondering if you are growing, you will see the results yourself!
MISSION:
Rope Confidence
Class PLUS ROPE!
Get Premium Ready-to-Use Jute Rope Included!
$97.00
- 1-Hour *Live* Lecture Portion
- Get Started on Your Rope Confidence Journey in an EXPERIENTIAL online course that is different than anything you have seen before!
- Learn the Five Key Areas of Rope Bondage
- Unlimited Access to course materials
- Access to a Community SLACK Group Chat
- You will clearly see your progress in this course. No wondering if you are growing, you will see the results yourself!
- PLUS ROPE: (3) 30' and (2) 14' Hanks of Premium, Ready-to-Use, 6mm Jute Rope for Shibari/Rope Bondage
- PLUS: Premium Safety Shears
- Rope & Shears Package Value: Over $150 By Itself!
- All products used and endorsed by SirKnottyDan
- USPS Priority Mail Shipping Included for U.S. Residents Only
SirKnottyDan & ReneeHayBailey
SirKnottyDan (He/Him) & ReneeHayBailey (She/Her):
He has traveled the world educating teachers on how to deliver explicit, hands-on, direct instructional materials to their students. For more than five years he, and his partner Renee, have been teaching rope bondage to their students in Southern California. As the owners of All Tied Up San Diego, they have helped more than 2,500 unique individuals to safely and consensually learn about rope bondage and start their kinky journey.
Renee is a complex, quiet, introverted, shy, intellectual, over-thinker, who is very protective, caring, and perceptive. She is also a rope bottom. She takes part in the training, to keep SirKnottyDan on topic, and to cover key aspects from a bottom's perspective. She and SirKnottyDan are partners in rope and in real life.
I highly recommend All Tied Up for anyone interested in beginning or continuing their rope journey regardless of their skill level. Really enjoyed it. Thank you!!
All Courses & Classes Come With A 100% Money-Back Guarantee
MISSION:
Rope Confidence
Getting Started Class
Class Only
- 1-Hour *Live* Lecture Portion
- Get Started on Your Rope Confidence Journey in an EXPERIENTIAL online course that is different than anything you have seen before!
- Learn the Five Key Areas of Rope Bondage
- Unlimited Access to course materials
- Access to a Community SLACK Group Chat
- You will clearly see your progress in this course. No wondering if you are growing, you will see the results yourself!
MISSION:
Rope Confidence
Class PLUS ROPE!
Get Premium Ready-to-Use Jute Rope Included!
$97.00
- 1-Hour *Live* Lecture Portion
- Get Started on Your Rope Confidence Journey in an EXPERIENTIAL online course that is different than anything you have seen before!
- Learn the Five Key Areas of Rope Bondage
- Unlimited Access to course materials
- Access to a Community SLACK Group Chat
- You will clearly see your progress in this course. No wondering if you are growing, you will see the results yourself!
- PLUS ROPE: (3) 30' and (2) 14' Hanks of Premium, Ready-to-Use, 6mm Jute Rope for Shibari/Rope Bondage
- PLUS: Premium Safety Shears
- Rope & Shears Package Value: Over $150 By Itself!
- All products used and endorsed by SirKnottyDan
- USPS Priority Mail Shipping Included for U.S. Residents Only
Sources:
(1) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201908/what-kind-people-enjoy-bdsm
(2) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/unique-everybody-else/201905/sexual-satisfaction-in-bdsm